All of us know what it’s like to miss a deadline. We stress about the work. We stress about the relationships. We feel terrible about it and ourselves. And, to combat this from happening, we make endless to-do lists to keep us feeling organized and in control. And yet, we can’t seem to let go of the things that get us in trouble in the first place: overcommitting and overpromising. We’re relentlessly aspirational about the amount of time things take – especially when it comes to working on our own businesses. This week we tackle how to break out of the shame spiral around deadlines and how to better set yourself up for success.